Just had a phone call? A fall, hospital stay, diagnosis?
Aging Gracefully comes alongside you in these transitions and provides peace of mind.
When it comes to aging, do you ever ask yourself, "Am I doing enough? Do I have the right plan and resources?"
With Aging Gracefully, you can be at ease when it comes to the stress and worry of aging. We provide a comprehensive and personalized approach to care management for persons needing support as they navigate life transitions, be it aging related or complex medical situations.
Our goal is to maintain a person’s dignity, quality of life, and independence. We see ourselves as an extension of our client's family and want to ensure they (and their families) never feel alone. By guiding them through difficult situations, we impart a peace of mind and a sense of relief so they can continue to enjoy their time together.
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"She says she doesn't need any help"
We hear this on almost every first call. Your mother is sharp, proud, and has been running her own life for eighty years, and she doesn't want a stranger in her kitchen.
That's usually not stubbornness. It's control. And it's a completely reasonable response to feeling like decisions are being made about you. So we don't arrive to take anything over. We arrive to ask her what she wants, and then we build around that.
We've worked with the charming ones and the private ones, the ones who fire people and the ones who say yes to everything and then don't answer the door.
Whatever your mother is, we've met her before.
Your brother sees it differently. That's normal.
Most families we meet have three or four people with opinions and one person on the front lines. Add a spouse, a few hundred miles, and an old argument nobody has resolved, and decisions stall at exactly the moment they need to move.
We've sat at a lot of those kitchen tables. We bring the facts, we put the same options in front of everyone at once, and we take the pressure off whoever has been carrying it alone. You don't have to be the one who convinces everybody - you’ll have a negotiator and ally.
What it looks like six months in:
One current medication list, and everybody has it.
The cardiologist and the neurologist know about each other.
Your mother makes the Thursday lunch, because someone arranged the ride.
You get a text after the appointment instead of a voicemail from a stranger.
Nobody has had to make a big decision standing in a hospital hallway.
You had dinner with your mom and talked about something other than her health.
You made mahjong on Tuesday, and it was just mahjong.
Date night happened, and it wasn’t a working dinner.
Who We Are & What We Do
Learn about the Aging Gracefully story from our founder Melanie
How it works
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A conversation. A discovery call with Melanie, unhurried, no script. You tell us what's going on. We tell you honestly whether we're the right fit.
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Paperwork first. Before we bill anyone's time, we send a plain-English service agreement and a secure payment form. It's a small bit of upfront friction that keeps your care manager focused on your family instead of billing.
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Your match, within 48 hours, to be sure. We introduce your care manager. If the fit isn't right after that first meeting, tell us within 48 hours, and we'll reassess at no charge.
What it costs
Care management is $165 an hour. We're private-pay; we don't bill insurance or Medicaid, and that's deliberate: it's what lets us work for your family and nobody else.
Caregiver coaching packages start at $1,000. Most families use us more heavily at the start and less as things settle.
The extras aren't extra.
These are not touches we add. They are the standard we never lower.
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One care manager, matched to your situation. Not a rotating team and not a call center.
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Behind her is a full team of specialists: nurses, social workers, occupational therapists, so no question ever waits on one person's schedule.
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She goes to the appointment in person, not a phone call about it afterward.
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You get a written plan you can hold, not a verbal summary.
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A callback the same business day, always — weekends, we're back to you first thing Monday.
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Forty-eight hours to change your mind about your match, at no charge.
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Someone to bring the joy back, too — the hobbies, the outings, the things that make a day feel like a day worth having.
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We handle the small things too — the move, the paperwork pile, the ride to lunch on Thursday, a home that feels cozy and safer to move through.
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A welcome basket waiting on day one, so the first thing you feel from us is care, not paperwork.
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A direct line and personal relationship to your care manager, not a front desk, not a call center, not "someone will get back to you."
Meet Our Founder
Melanie Maynor,
MSW, LCSW, CMC
Melanie Maynor grew up in South Louisiana, where her grandmother Bootsie lived across the street from the high school. Every day after school, Melanie and her siblings walked straight to her door. Bootsie wasn't a chapter at the end of the story. She was part of the everyday one.
Melanie was 22 when her mother died of cancer. There was no one to help her family navigate what came next, no one to explain what to expect, what to ask, or what to do first. They found their way through it alone, and she has always believed they could have done it better with someone beside them.
She earned her master's in social work at Washington University and spent years in the rooms where families try to make good decisions with incomplete information decisions she once had to make without any guide of her own. She started Aging Gracefully because she kept meeting families in that same room: doing everything right, and still drowning. Not because anyone had failed. Because nobody hands you a map.
"The families I meet aren't looking to hand over responsibility. They're looking for someone who knows the way."
Read more about Melanie's story in the Webster-Kirkwood Times.
Our Guiding Principles
We believe our work...
...is sacred.
...brings peace to families.
...is person-centered and holistic.
...is to co-author your story in finishing well.
How we help
The little things that make a house feel like home still matter, even when life gets harder. Fresh flowers on the table. The wreath that goes up before the holidays arrive. A room that still feels like someone lives here, not somewhere someone is just getting by.
These are the touches our team brings: the white-glove details most families want to give but no longer have the hours for.
At the same time, an occupational therapist quietly walks the home with a different eye: the stairs, the bathroom, the rug that could catch a foot. Not to take anything away, but to make sure the home that feels right is also safe.
Both come from the same instinct. Our team notices what's easy to miss when you're too close to it, or too worn down to see it clearly — the small shift in balance, the room that's gone a little quiet, the things a family member senses but can't quite name. We see them, and we act on them, so safety and warmth aren't a trade-off.
Because this next chapter should still feel like theirs. Your story, still yours to live — just with someone making sure it's a safe one.
What Aging Gracefully Does
Start with an honest assessment.
A full picture of where things actually stand — health, home, money, safety, and what your mother wants. You get a written plan you can act on, whether or not you hire us to run it.
We go to the appointments.
We sit in, ask the questions you'd think of at eleven at night, and turn what was said into what happens next. Everyone on the care team hears the same story from the same person.
When things move fast, you're not starting from scratch.
A fall, a hospital stay, a sudden change. Because we already know the history, the doctors and the family, the first forty-eight hours go very differently.
Coaching for the person doing the carrying.
Virtual sessions for family caregivers — decision-making, boundaries, and getting siblings onto the same page. Packages start at $1,000 and include an assessment plus four to six sessions.
Moves, downsizing, and the running list.
A safety evaluation at home, a transition to a new place, or the pile of things that need doing and never get done. Carol handles the details most families don't have the hours for.
